The following question was submitted, "How often does G.S.A. happen? and how can you tell if it is the beginning of that, or just an intense relationship? What is the best way to handle it."
Genetic Sexual Attraction is said to exist at some level in approximately 50% of all reunions. In the vast majority of these reunions this attraction is kept in check and slowly fades as the new familial roles are developed and accepted as normal.
The BEST way to tell if this is happening or if the relationship is just rushing forward in a "more normal" sense is to simply ask lots of questions. Honestly bringing up the conversation without being accusing or defensive will encourage the open discussion of all feelings and reactions. Many times the new feelings in a reunion are confusing, mixed and very hard to articulate. Through the process of discussion these feelings can be more clearly understood by all parties.
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